This past Monday I attended a MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) meeting in which a Pastor came to speak to these young moms about marriage enrichment.  He brought up some wonderful points about the differences between men and women and had multiple choice questions that he reviewed with the women.  One of the multiple choice questions was "Men get involved in pornography because"........the answer was "The women on the screen never say no."  He then shared that "Ladies, you are the first line of defense between your husband and pornography."  The next sentence that came out of his mouth was that "scientific studies show that men think about sex every 3 seconds." 

When the women broke into small groups, there was discussion about the above statements.  One woman commented that if men can only do one thing at a time, then if they are thinking about sex every 3 seconds.... how do they get anything done?  Another stated, what if we're not using birth control, am I to be bare foot and pregnant all the time if I am to make my man happy?

Based on the statements the speaker mentioned, many women in the group felt the main message was that they needed to accomodate often, regardless of how they felt.  Don't get me wrong, I believe the marital act is a holy and miraculous event between a husband and wife, however, there is a big push for women to have sex often and in interesting positition using interesting things.  The Christian wife has alot of pressure on her to be better than porn and yet still try and keep the marriage bed pure. 

The husband/wife relationship needs to be the primary relationship before the parent child relationship.  Sadly, many women get caught up with their children and totally neglect their husbands and I don't advocate that either.

My question was if this study on mens "thoughts on sex" would have been done before the legalization of birth control (thanks to Planned Parenthoods push) then would they have been thinking about sex every three seconds, since they knew the obvious result of the marital act?  The scientific studies I'm sure are coming from the Kinsey Institute or the Guttmacher Institute......both have a vested interest to have us believe we are mainly sexual animals.  Don't believe in the lies....check out what God has to be say about the marriage bed and how husbands and wives are to treat one another.  Mutual love, respect, and being cherished are at the top of the list!  Frequency of the marital act is something that should be talked out between a husband and wife......what they are lead to do and not what society is telling them they should do!